Wedding
Plans are More than an Exercise in Getting Things Done... All this decision
making by the Bride & Groom together can help build their relationship.
Planning a Wedding can be a stressful time in the life of brides and
grooms and their families, with so many things going on at once and more
details than they ever considered.
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To reduce
some of the challenges associated with that momentous experience some
prospective brides may consider hiring a professional wedding planner.
No more hassles with everything associated with the
reception, flowers, photography, catering, etc. You just tell them the
type of location, the size of the party, the time of the day, etc. and they
do the rest.
Do you
really want someone else to plan your wedding? What learning and
bonding experiences are you giving up by letting someone else do it? To start
with, it is no longer Your Wedding, you have already outsourced this special
moment in your life.
Even
though it may be very stressful and energy consuming, planning your own
wedding is also, as many couples can tell you, a great moment for the bride
and the groom to bond and get to know each other better. It is also an
exercise in human relations and in how to manage often times divergent
opinions. Happy couples have learned that "give and take" is
the foundation of increasing love, it is also a better way to know your
future spouse.
Wedding
planning will provide you with the opportunity to interact with the
"in-laws" and get to know the other side of the family. You
will discuss personal preferences and get to know them very well.
You may,
at first, consider hiring the services of a Professional Wedding Planner, so
that you may devote more time and energy to make those extra dollars that you
need to have a comfy life. It may not be worth it and you may regret
the fact that you didn't spend that time together with your better half.
Couples
who have been happily married for many years often times look back to this
challenging time of their life and remember the decisions that they made
together and the happy moments they shared. That it was THEIR WEDDING
that laid the foundation for a happy life together.
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